Race: An Old Topic that Requires a New Conversation
Race conversations matter…
Education: Race continues to be part of the conversation on closing the educational achievement gap for Black and White student performance in math and reading.
Politics: Race continues to be a part of U.S. political discourse and affects our ability to productively engage in a global society.
Economy: Race continues to be a part of our discussion on America's economic future with a growing divide between the "have and have mores" with have nots disproportionately represented by people of color.
Health Care: Race continues to be a part of the discourse on inequitable treatment and disparate outcomes.
Leisure: Race continues to limit our ability to engage socially and to have crucial conversations that improve race relations.
Religion: Race continues to be absent from the discussion on what divides us on Sunday mornings and other times of worship.
Race conversations tips from Racing Across the Lines: Changing Race Relations Through Friendships:
Learn the value of a variety of opinions and thoughts. See "the other side of the dollar bill." Recognize the challenges and learning opportunities that new perspectives bring. Where there is a discomfort there is learning if we stay with the discomfort long enough. Base your expectations of others on individual qualities and traits rather than racial group identity. Seek out ways to personally and professionally develop diversity competencies. Take a class, watch a movie or read a book on racial issues.Encourage and accept openness in others. Do not assume.
When you make a mistake that involves race—get over it. Become emotionally resilient. Learn from it and move on. Spend time with a variety of people—don't avoid situations or events in which you might be the "only one" or one of a few of your racial group. Make other people feel valued. It will increase your own sense of worth.
Have a clear sense of yourself as a racial being. Understand how race has affected your life and influenced your thinking and behavior. Stop being an expert on what the other race might be thinking.
Talk and socialize with your friends of different races. Don't be afraid to ask the stupid questions. Don't be afraid to give the honest responses.
Benefits of Cross-Race Socializing: