Getting to We: Transforming Social Distancing into Social Honoring

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We are one humanity.  Regardless of race, religion, gender identity, education level, physical/mental ability, sexual orientation, income, ethnicity or land of origin, we are ALL human.  Sadly, we too often forget this reality.  Ironically, it may be a global pandemic that reminds us of this precious truth.  

Recent events have been a stark reminder that we are all inextricably connected… and vulnerable.  We are all at risk of getting sick, not only from Covid19 but from a whole host of other diseases and symptoms.  We all need care sometimes.  We all give care sometimes. 

We are one humanity.  If we open our hearts to this reality, a time of crisis such as this can be a clarion call to recognize that what we share in common as fellow human beings is far greater than what separates us.  Rather than give in to the temptation to blame, divide, and hoard, it is my deepest prayer that we will dig deep and choose to share, unite and care for one another.  

We care for one another by listening to well-trained health experts and following the medically necessary and proven strategy of ‘social distancing.’   We care for one another by reaching out to those who may feel isolated, donating to a local food bank, babysitting for a friend, or making a meal for an elderly neighbor. When this initial threat fades and we slowly begin to reconnect, we must be especially vigilant about caring for one another by addressing the staggering economic fallout; especially for those in deepest need.  

We are one humanity.  If we dare to claim this reality, then this could be our finest hour.  We could model for generations to come what it means to embrace the best of being human – to honor, respect, love and care for one another. 

What if … instead of being remembered as a time of social distancing, this crisis were remembered as a time of social honoring; a time when we honored our shared humanity?  What if we acknowledged our common need for food, shelter, health care, kindness and love? What if we truly lived out the ideal of loving our neighbor as our self?  The practice of social honoring guides us away from the myth of ‘us vs. them’ and instead gets us to we.  

We are one humanity.  Let’s act like it.

Rev. Sharon Seyfarth Garner

Rev. Sharon Seyfarth Garner, Director & Founder of Belly of the Whale Spiritual Direction & Retreat Ministries LLC,  is a pastor, author, spiritual director and retreat leader.  She has written Praying with Mandalas:  A Colorful, Contemplative Practice and Mandalas, Candles and Prayer:  A Simply Centered Advent.  

She was ordained as an Elder by the United Methodist Church in 1997 and is ecclesiastically endorsed for the specialized ministry of spiritual direction.  Sharon has graduate certificates in Spiritual Direction (Ignatian Spirituality Institute of John Carroll University), Diversity Management (Cleveland State University), and Ecumenical Studies (World Council of Churches).  

Sharon holds a B.A from Swarthmore College (1989) and an M.Div. from the Methodist Theological School of Ohio (1995).  Sharon is a member of Spiritual Directors International and the Fellowship of United Methodist Spiritual Directors and Retreat Leaders.  

Sharon has led spiritual renewal workshops and retreats across the country including at the Spiritual Director’s International Conference and Wild Goose Festival. She has introduced thousands across the world to the meaningful spiritual practice of contemplative coloring as a way of drawing closer to God. Praying with Mandalas has been used by groups across the United States as well as in Israel, New Zealand, France and Liberia.